You'll learn whether you prefer a "louder" experience, one that's a little more animalistic, or "classic", where you're softer and gentler. You'll discover if you prefer to be more dominant or submissive, or if it depends on who you're with. You'll learn if you like top, bottom (getting inserted), or both.
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We've learned this about each other over time, and you can, too. Yet, if I tell him to fuck my face hard, whether it's a request or a challenge to him and his masculinity, he's going to. However, he does it lovingly he treats me with respect in and out of bed. He'll take charge during sex, holding my head in a controlling fashion as he inserts his dick into my mouth I fucking love that! For me, he's showing his strength and power over me. Swain, "Dynamic Duos") Hence he is often more dominant, which suits me fine. My guy and I are of equal size, but he's thicker and stronger than I am (WOOF!), and his personality is Alpha and I'm Beta. Your personality type is more pertinent since you're about to begin becoming sexually active. One thing you're going to learn about yourself on your sexual path is your sexual personality type and your fetishes. Remember that you are on a path of discovery you'll be in awe of what makes him feel good and what makes you feel great. Go slow you've got all night to be screaming Jesus' name. In all seriousness, though, when you have your first experience, you're going to be nervous and excited totally fine. WHOA, SON! Keep your face away from it! Or at least, close your eyes! Whack that wang until he sputters more than a 1949 jalopy. Unlike women, who are a complete mystery, who keep their secrets hidden from all of mankind, we're pretty simple. There are a number of ways to please a man, and to get pleased.
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Now, I think the others, whasupjohn and foolsjourney, gave you some good advice.